To injure another person through atonement is one of the most subtle devices of the neurotic, as when, for example, he indulges in self-accusations.
In the investigation of a neurotic style of life, we must always suspect an opponent, and note who suffers most because of the patient’s condition. Usually this is a member of the family.
It is one of the most effective attitudes of the neurotic to measure thumbs down, so to speak, a real person by an ideal, since in doing so he can depreciate him as much as he wishes.
In this case, the neurotic resembles a human being who looks up to God, commends himself to His ways, and then religiously awaits how the Lord will guide him; he is nailed to the cross of his fiction.
The neurotic is nailed to the cross of his fiction.
It is one of the triumphs of human wit…to conquer by humility and submissiveness… to make oneself small in order to appear great… such… are often the expedients of the neurotic.
Every neurotic is partly in the right.
All failures – neurotics, psychotics, criminals, drunkards, problem children, suicides, perverts, and prostitutes – are failures because they are lacking in social interest.